Mind Power Metaphysics and Yoga
The Daffodil
Principle
Jaroldeen Asplund
Edwards
Several
times my daughter had telephoned to say, "Mother, you must come and see
the daffodils before they are over." I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour
drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead. Going and coming took most of a day--and
I honestly did not have a free day until the following week.
"I will come next Tuesday, " I promised, a little reluctantly, on her third
call.
Next Tuesday dawned
cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and so I drove the length of Route
91, continued on I-215, and finally turned onto Route 18 and began to drive
up the mountain highway. The tops of the mountains were sheathed in clouds,
and I had gone only a few miles when the road was completely covered with
a wet, gray blanket of fog. I slowed to a crawl, my heart pounding. The road
becomes narrow and winding toward the top of the mountain.
As I executed the hazardous turns at a snail's pace, I was praying to reach
the turnoff at Blue Jay that would signify I had arrived. When I finally walked
into Carolyn's house and hugged and greeted my grandchildren I said, "Forget
the daffodils, Carolyn! The road is invisible in the clouds and fog, and there
is nothing in the world except you and these darling children that I want
to see bad enough to drive another inch!"
My daughter smiled calmly," We drive in this all the time, Mother."
"Well, you won't get me back on the road until it clears--and then I'm
heading for home!" I assured her.
"I was hoping you'd take me over to the garage to pick up my car. The mechanic
just called, and they've finished repairing the engine," she answered.
"How far will we have to drive?" I asked cautiously.
"Just a few blocks," Carolyn said cheerfully.
So we buckled up the children and went out to my car. "I'll drive," Carolyn
offered. "I'm used to this." We got into the car, and she began driving.
In a few minutes I was aware that we were back on the Rim-of-the-World Road
heading over the top of the mountain. "Where are we going?" I exclaimed, distressed
to be back on the mountain road in the fog. "This isn't the way to the garage!"
"We're going to my garage the long way," Carolyn smiled, "by way of the daffodils."
"Carolyn," I said sternly, trying to sound as if I was still the mother and
in charge of the situation, "please turn around. There is nothing in the world
that I want to see enough to drive on this road in this weather."
"It's all right, Mother," She replied with a knowing grin. "I know what I'm
doing. I promise, you will never forgive yourself if you miss this experience."
And so my sweet, darling daughter who had never given me a minute of difficulty
in her whole life was suddenly in charge -- and she was kidnapping me! I couldn't
believe it. Like it or not, I was on the way to see some ridiculous daffodils
-- driving through the thick, gray silence of the mist-wrapped mountaintop
at what I thought was risk to life and limb.
I muttered all the way. After about twenty minutes we turned onto a small
gravel road that branched down into an oak-filled hollow on the side of the
mountain. The Fog had lifted a little, but the sky was lowering, gray and
heavy with clouds.
We parked in a small parking lot adjoining a little stone church. From our
vantage point at the top of the mountain we could see beyond us, in the mist,
the crests of the San Bernardino range like the dark, humped backs of a herd
of elephants. Far below us the fog-shrouded valleys, hills, and flatlands
stretched away to the desert.
On the far side of the church I saw a pine-needle-covered path, with towering
evergreens and manzanita bushes and an inconspicuous, lettered sign "Daffodil
Garden."
We each took a child's hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path as it wound
through the trees. The mountain sloped away from the side of the path in irregular
dips, folds, and valleys, like a deeply creased skirt.
Live oaks, mountain laurel, shrubs, and bushes clustered in the folds, and
in the gray, drizzling air, the green foliage looked dark and monochromatic.
I shivered. Then we turned a corner of the path, and I looked up and gasped.
Before me lay the most glorious sight, unexpectedly and completely splendid.
It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured it down
over the mountain peak and slopes where it had run into every crevice and
over every rise. Even in the mist-filled air, the mountainside was radiant,
clothed in massive drifts and waterfalls of daffodils. The flowers were planted
in majestic, swirling patterns, great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, white,
lemon yellow, salmon pink, saffron, and butter yellow.
Each different-colored variety (I learned later that there were more than
thirty-five varieties of daffodils in the vast display) was planted as a group
so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique hue.
In the center of this incredible and dazzling display of gold, a great cascade
of purple grape hyacinth flowed down like a waterfall of blossoms framed in
its own rock-lined basin, weaving through the brilliant daffodils. A charming
path wound throughout the garden. There were several resting stations, paved
with stone and furnished with Victorian wooden benches and great tubs of coral
and carmine tulips. As though this were not magnificence enough, Mother Nature
had to add her own grace note -- above the daffodils, a bevy of western bluebirds
flitted and darted, flashing their brilliance. These charming little birds
are the color of sapphires with breasts of magenta red. As they dance in the
air, their colors are truly like jewels above the blowing, glowing daffodils.
The effect was spectacular.
It did not matter that the sun was not shining. The brilliance of the daffodils
was like the glow of the brightest sunlit day. Words, wonderful as they are,
simply cannot describe the incredible beauty of that flower-bedecked mountain
top.
Five acres of flowers! (This too I discovered later when some of my questions
were answered.) "But who has done this?" I asked Carolyn. I was overflowing
with gratitude that she brought me -- even against my will. This was a once-in-a-lifetime
experience.
"Who?" I asked again, almost speechless with wonder, "And how, and why, and
when?"
"It's just one woman," Carolyn answered. "She lives on the property. That's
her home." Carolyn pointed to a well-kept A-frame house that looked small
and modest in the midst of all that glory.
We walked up to the house, my mind buzzing with questions. On the patio we
saw a poster. " Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking" was the headline.
The first answer was a simple one. "50,000 bulbs," it read. The second answer
was, "One at a time, by one woman, two hands, two feet, and very little brain."
The third answer was, "Began in 1958."
There it was. The Daffodil Principle.
For me that moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this woman
whom I had never met, who, more than thirty-five years before, had begun --
one bulb at a time -- to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure
mountain top. One bulb at a time.
There was no other way to do it. One bulb at a time. No shortcuts -- simply
loving the slow process of planting. Loving the work as it unfolded.
Loving an achievement that grew so slowly and that bloomed for only three
weeks of each year. Still, just planting one bulb at a time,
year after year, had changed the world.
This unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she lived. She had
created something of ineffable magnificence, beauty, and inspiration.
The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest principle
of celebration: learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at
a time -- often just one baby-step at a time -- learning to love the doing,
learning to use the accumulation of time.
When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort,
we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world.
"Carolyn," I said that morning on the top of the mountain as we left the haven
of daffodils, our minds and hearts still bathed and bemused by the splendors
we had seen, "it's as though that remarkable woman has needle-pointed the
earth! Decorated it. Just think of it, she planted every single bulb for more
than thirty years. One bulb at a time! And that's the only way this garden
could be created. Every individual bulb had to be planted. There was no way
of short-circuiting that process.
Five acres of blooms. That magnificent cascade of hyacinth!
All, all, just one bulb at a time."
The thought of it filled my mind. I was suddenly overwhelmed with the implications
of what I had seen. "It makes me sad in a way," I admitted to Carolyn. "What
might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five
years ago and had worked away at it 'one bulb at a time' through all those
years.
Just think what I might have been able to achieve!"
My wise daughter put the car into gear and summed up the message of the day
in her direct way. "Start tomorrow," she said with the same knowing smile
she had worn for most of the morning. Oh, profound wisdom!
It is pointless to think of the lost hours of yesterdays. The way to make
learning a lesson a celebration instead of a cause for regret is to only ask,
"How can I put this to use tomorrow?"
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